Friday, November 4, 2011

Lessons I Wish I Had Learned WAY Sooner

When I think of my thinner, stupider self, I think, “Crap.  If I knew then what I know now…”  Well, here are some of the things I wish I knew then.
1.  Save your money.
2.    No one knows what you’re thinking unless you tell them.
3.    Stay away from Loans.
4.    1 out of 4 people that you meet won’t like you.  That’s really OK.
5.    Life isn’t fair.  Most of the time it’s not fair in your favor.
6.    Perfectionism will kill you.
7.    You’re stronger than you think you are.
8.    Comparing yourself to others is never a good idea.
9.    When someone shows you who they are, believe them.  People are consistent.
10.  Develop critical thinking skills and use them.
11.  Never hide your intelligence from anyone.-
12.  Trust your instincts.
13.  80% of everything is irrelevant
14.  Spend WAY less time worrying about the shape of your body.
15.  Be nicer to yourself too.
16.  For the most part, it doesn’t matter what people think.  Follow your own truth.
17.  No education is wasted.
18.   Drink in as many new experiences as you can.
19.  Work hard.
20.  Networking is Important.
21.  Don’t treat anyone badly.  You’ll be surprised when they’ll pop up again in your life.
22.  Do what you love, not what you think you’re supposed to do.
23.  Love those people who love you the most because it hurts them when you don’t respond.
24.  Don’t forget to enjoy your journey!

Monday, October 31, 2011

Kanda Sashti Kavasam

The spiritual song, which make me forget the whole world whenever i listen to it......

The 5 Toughest Questions Women Ask

1."What are you thinking?" 
2."Do you love me?" 
3."Do I look fat?" 
4."Do you think she is prettier than me?" 
5."What would you do if I died?" 
What makes these questions so bad is that every one is 
guaranteed to explode into a major argument and/or 
divorce if the man does not answer properly, which is 
to say dishonestly. For example: 

1. "What are you thinking?" The proper answer to this 
question, of course, is, "I'm sorry if I've been 
pensive, dear. I was just reflecting on what a warm, 
wonderful, caring, thoughtful, intelligent, beautiful 
woman you are and what a lucky guy I am to have met 

Obviously, this statement bears no resemblance 
whatsoever to what the guy was really thinking at the 
time, which was most likely one of five things: 
a. x-udball 
b. Football 
c. How fat you are. 
d. How much prettier she is than you. 
e. How he would spend the insurance money if you died. 

2. "Do you love me?" The correct answer to this 
question is, "Yes." For those guys who feel the need 
to be more elaborate, you may answer, "Yes, dear." 

Wrong answers include: 
a. I suppose so. 
b. Would it make you feel better if I said yes. 
c. That depends on what you mean by "love". 
d. Does it matter? 
e. Who, me? 

3. "Do I look fat?" The correct male response to this 
question is to confidently and emphatically state, 
"No, of course not" and then quickly leave the room. 

Wrong answers include: 
a. I wouldn't call you fat, but I wouldn't call you 
thin either. 
b. Compared to what? 
c. A little extra weight looks good on you. 
d. I've seen fatter. 
e. Could you repeat the question? I was thinking about 
your insurance policy. 

4. "Do you think she's prettier than me?" The "she" in 
the question could be an ex-girlfriend, a passer-by 
you were starring at so hard that you almost caused a 
traffic accident or an actress in a movie you just 
saw. In any case, the correct response is, "No, you 
are much prettier." 

Wrong answers include: 
a. Not prettier, just pretty in a different way. 
b. I don't know how one goes about rating such things. 

c. Yes, but I bet you have a better personality. 
d. Only in the sense that she's younger and thinner. 
e. Could you repeat the question? I was thinking about 
your insurance policy. 

5. "What would you do if I died?" 
Correct answer: 
"Dearest love, in the event of your untimely demise, 
life would cease to have meaning for me and I would 
perforce hurl myself under the front tires of the 
first Domino's Pizza truck that came my way." 

Tuesday, October 25, 2011

Things which I like in My best Friend Demetrius ( Pet Name Demet)

  1. He can always cheer me up. 
  2. We have tons of inside jokes. 
  3. His hand shivers whenever he talks to stranger particularly girls….lolz
  4.  We have 100020013457809 things in common. 
  5.  He has my back when I need him. 
  6. He makes me laugh every time i cry within 3 minutes.
  7. He HAS to tell me everything or he'd die 
  8. We hate the same people 
  9. I am smarter than him…lol 
  10. I trust him for whatever he do for me
  11. We had never fought in these 7 years of friendship…. (Touchwood)
  12. He is always there for me. 
  13. He’s AWESOME! 
  14. He is an awesome cook. 
  15. He puts up with me no matter what!
  16. He helps me grow up 
  17. He accepts me as a friend for who I am 
  18. He can make me laugh until I cry, every time.
  19. We both love the exact same things.
  20. He's the only one I feel comfortable telling all of my secrets to, and he feels the same about me. 
  21. We make up code words in the middle of conversations with other friends and we know exactly what the other person is talking about. 
  22. He'll always drop everything to help me. 
  23. His goofy laugh♥ 
  24. We can have hour long conversations about absolutely nothing 
  25. We're horrible to each other but we know that it doesn't mean anything. 
  26. He smile at my silly jokes.
  27. He praise me for small qualities.
  28. He never care about his future
  29. We both like watching movies in the theater..
30.  I love that you are my best friend in the whole world and always have been

Tuesday, October 11, 2011

25 things about my Best Friend Manisha Pinto

  1. She annoys me to death. 
  2. I'm allowed to torture her. :P . 
  3. She keeps me from hurting the guys who likes her. Otherwise he would bleed. 
  4. She never listens to me…
  5. She never comes to me for any personal advice….lolz
  6. She's super nice, smart, beautiful, great, awesome, and amazingly wonderful. 
  7. Even on her bad days, somehow she remains beautiful, heart and all. 
  8. I can be nut so and crazy around her and never think twice about it. 
  9. She hates my walking style..;)
  10. she knows everything about me
  11. She hates if I lie to her
  12. She doesn't let me make fun of my name. 
  13. She's smarter than me 
  14. I trust her more than anyone 
  15. We have NOTHING in common. 
  16. We fight, but its always short-lived. 
  17. She is always there for me. 
  18. She’s AWESOME! 
  19. She’s honest. 
  20. She makes me feel weak whenevr she don't answer to my call or reply to messages.
  21. She forgives me when I make mistakes.
  22. She always knows what I mean when I speak.
  23. She is dependable, trustworthy and sweet.
  24. She has an answer for everything.
  25. I can talk about any and every subject with her.
I love her to death! Thx For being my frnd....


  1. When I was young I worried that I would still be playing cricket when I was an adult, and it would make me an outsider…..
  2. I've never broken a limb or been in hospital( Touchwood) ;)
  3. My favourite ice cream is Kulfi
  4. I once ran away from home at age 6 with my neighbor child…..It is said by our parents tat v wen in a search of a man who gave us balloon
  5. I love sleeping late night
  6. I am afraid of the dark
  7. I like ma native place
  8. I love my family………..:)
  9. I love being in love
  10. I don't believe in love at first sight
  11. I have a problem with procrastination
  12. I appreciate my mother
  13. I think about my mistakes
  14. I feel lucky that I have been loved by my friends
  15. If I had the chance to start again, I would do almost everything differently
  16. I've never been cool. I kind of go my own way, which is un-cool, apparently.
  17. I remember me having chicken pox at the age of 8.
  18. I really really hate being sick.
  19. People who make me laugh fascinate me. Especially when its a sarcastic or caustic remark that does it
  20. I can't think of that many things to write about myself!
  21. My favorite actor Surya and Vijay & actress Asin, Sada( All from Kollywood)
  22. I always wanted to be in a real haunted house and have to stay the night with a group of my friends
  23. I love to read. Especially when its cold and raining and I'm inside
  24. I hate weddings. They're boring and stressful.
  25. I love mashed potato. Any potato dish really
  26. I can't sing, but I still love to anyway.
  27. I get a sore back pretty easily.
  28. My favourite color is blue, which is boring because almost everyone elses is too
  29. I love pillow fights
  30. I have a weakness for Mc’ds Filo-to-fish , Cheese popcorn & Coke.
  31. Non-veg food is my favourite
  32. I like music with sad lyrics. This does not make me permanently depressive, however
  33. I cannot keep my room tidy.
  34. I miss old friends sometimes but realise our parting was probably for the best
  35. I don't like football, soccer, tennis, the Olympics or anything competitive really
  36. I am not competitive
  37. I am good at gardening.
  38. I once caught a cricket ball in my hair and became the most popular player for the day
  39. I don't really like a lot of chocolate
  40. My favourite movie is HAHK, Any horror movies
  41. My boss once made me cry for not doing service tax calculation properly….It was fun
  42. Above all programs I worked, I hate Lotus Notes the most
  43. If I were a cartoon character, I'd be Olive oil from the Popye Show.
  44. If I were an animal, I'd be a Owl. As I go late to bed at night :)
  45. I'm passionate about music and have a pretty diverse taste
  46. I'm not in the least bit original, but praise others for being so
  47. I hate noise waking me up.
  48. I don't do walking.
  49. Rich food and a lot of laughs = the perfect night out (or in, depending) which I had wit my best frnds
  50. I miss my old life sometimes.

Wednesday, June 8, 2011

51 things I wan to do in my life.

  1. Wan to become ca
  2. Wan to go short trip to Shimla
  3. Wan to go esselworld
  4. Learn Salsa
  5. Give a Speech in front of atleast 100 people
  6. Be a Pen friend with someone.
  7. To drink Alcohol atleast once
  8. Wan to meet A.P.J.Abdul kalam
  9. To watch movie one full day without missing a single show.
  10. Send parents to world tour
  11. Surprise my brothers with gifts
  12. Own house & car
  13. Learn to play guitar
  14. Learn to speak fluent English
  15. Learn atleast 10 new language
  16. Learn Skating
  17. Do river Rafting
  18. Resigning Job which I don’t like
  19. Identify someone who had inspired me in life
  20. Be a mentor to someone
  21. Be a best freind to someone
  22. Give surprise to someone
  23. Perform a kind deed
  24. Write a blog
  25. Experience a sunrise
  26. Visit a waterfall
  27. Get a complete make over
  28. Be a matchmaker for atleast one friend
  29. Win a lucky draw
  30. Be a president of a company
  31. Open own company or firm
  32. Own the costliest watch in this universe.
  33. Gift someone most expensive thing.
  34. Bake a cake for someone special
  35. Scold a politician in front of public
  36. Throw a mega party when I clear CA exam
  37. Own Apple laptop ( latest edition)
  38. Trekking in a deep forest
  39. Drive a heavy bike.
  40. Learn karate
  41. Operate train
  42. Goto NASA
  43. Go for a long walk with someone
  44. Go on a cruise
  45. Have a ride on helicopter
  46. Fall in love
  47. Visit a castle in England
  48. Go to a most romantic place in thi world
  49. To go out of india with friends atleast for one month.
  50. To spend 1 week all alone.
  51. To suggest someone write bucket list.

Thursday, January 20, 2011

For True Success Ask the Four Questions:

Why?, Why Not? Why Not Me? Why Not Now?

Most of us are very poor critics of ourselves. We can easily criticize others and discover what is wrong with them, and we can easily build up an argument of our own side of the situation; but it is a far more difficult thing to be a self-critic-to take the situation that comes into our life and sit down with it frankly and say: "What did I do, or what have I said, that has contributed to this situation?"

There is not a person reading this page who is living up to his or her own possibilities. If you feel in a pretty much of a chaos, frustrated, lots of trouble and worry, just turn the searchlight on yourself and you will discover an available source of power. When you open up the channels and the avenues for that power, it will flood your soul and you will find yourself developing strength and poise, a solidarity, a feeling of security, that nothing on earth can shake! 

Is there jealousy in your heart? Is there envy? Opposition? Don't expect a miracle if you retain an obstacle. There is some disciplining you must do. You have got to clear out the old festering sores of your heart. Perhaps you have lied about someone; perhaps you have been unkind; perhaps you have been slandered and gossiped. Perhaps you have been "little" when you should have been "big".

How can we transmit our ideals into action so that these ideals can have sway in our lives? Well, we have to begin in our own hearts. When we clear away all the clutters up the channels, the heart and mind are cleansed, the head becomes rarified and the old jealousies, animosities and hatreds are uprooted, and then, though trouble may come in and flood and encompass our lives, there still is a power that reveals our own possibilities. The mere fact that none of us is living up to his best does not predicate that we never can.

Set no barriers for yourself. Admit no barricades or obstacles. Anything in the way? Look at it, examine it, analyze your relationship to the self-construction of it, clean up your own life and there will be an influx of that power to which there is no limit-unlimited you! You are unlimited! There is no limit for you!

                                 You Have Ambition.
                                 You have a Goal.
                                 Now you have a way
                                 to make it Happen.


“Ocean, who is the source of all “
Today I thought of expressing my relationship with god & also make readers realize how GOD plays an important role in each human beings life.
We must of course be attentive to practical things happening in & around us, but we need not be too practical & busy in life that we forget GOD who is the creator of this world…
We all must understand one basic thing that we are more than material beings, we are spiritual beings expressing in this material world. This world is made up of substance were we all are helping in its evolutionary process. We are an essential part of this huge lifecycle.
So the statement which m trying to make is that life will take care of our needs if we are open to GOD…..When we are about God’s business, when we are in our right place, all thing work for good as it is what planned for us… So while making any decision & expressing your feelings to someone never ever fear for anything because it was god’s sketch blueprint & u acted accordingly. Remember, the consequence can be either you achieve whatever u desired or else gets a beautiful experience which god wanted us to experience and later on give in more exciting way the desired one. Be master of this way of life. TRUST GOD.
So I would like to conclude by saying that:
The awareness of the presence & reality of God is the source of all good. God can & will meet all my needs. I remain open to this beautiful life. I AM THANKFUL.